Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Something I Call Personality...

Lately i've seen so many girls who claim that their weight is the reason that people judge them, or don't like them. Do you really think that is the case?

Personally, I don't, because there is this little something called 'personality'. If you have the confidence to approach people, and you have the communication skills to hold a conversation, nobody is going to give a fuck about your weight.

I know people who know that they are overweight, but still have the confidence in themselves to approach people, and still have a big personality that is so loveable. If you are fat with an overbearing personality...your weight is not your problem.

"People judge me because i'm fat" "You don't like me because i'm fat" fucking bullshit. Get some personality and learn to fucking communicate. Being over the top with everything isn't particularly admired. The only person you are being judged by when it comes to your image is yourself. So quit your fucking whinging, your weight isn't an excuse for your lack of personality.

I would just like to add a little bit to this...
I guess it is kinda relevant and fitting.

To the people who say they are 'starving' themselves for famous people... You all have issues.
If you seriously think you are gonna stand a chance with Pete Wentz/ Ryan Ross/ William Beckett/ Any hot famous person because you haven't eaten in the past week, then you need to sit down with a cheeseburger and rethink your life.
Because that is lame and pathetic. And so are you.

1 comment:

cupcake said...

omg so true.
seriously.
although i never realized that i had a negative self image until i started therapy. and then, i was made to do this thing where i had to write down what i look for in a person, and what makes me like them, and hey guess what, body size/image doesn't even make an appearence on that list. so i got over it. i am totally happy with who i am and what i look like. i'm not going to change it for anyone but myself. and even then it really is just my hair.
but then again my body issues were not that huge. i do know that it is an issue for some people, and they really need to get help for it. i know media doesn't help, but seriously, size zero is an ugly thing to aspire for. seriously.
and there is no way in hell that starving yourself for a famous person is healthy, get a grip on reality please.
anywhore, my useless rant ends here. you guys rock my world and i love you.
-bec. xo